Morag has just bent my mind on a topic I’ve been itching to get stats on – marriage versus cohabiting.
She asks: What does this topic have to do with politics?
I say: Everything! It’s symptomatic of the whole screwball way our society has gone.
She continues: So, however much we don’t like it, there are some home-truths we might need to face up to. Here are a few things we may want to think about:
• Unions where people are cohabiting are more likely to break up than marriages.
• Most such unions last less than 2 years before breaking up (or sometimes changing to marriage)
• Co-habitations with children are more likely to end
• 50% of women who have children in a cohabitating relationship will end up as lone-unmarried mothers
• Looking at children born in 1997 show that 70% of those born into households where their parents are married will spend their entire childhood with both their parents, whereas only 36 % of those children born into cohabiting households will have that experience. (*Civitas.org.uk goes into all this in more detail)
More than anything children crave stability. Also there are often very radical financial consequences which cause additional changes and far-reaching repercussions for a very young child to deal with. I have walked this path and continue to do so. Morag is just a parent trying to close the distance between what we read in the papers and what we live in our own lives.
There’s nothing really to add to this.