[things] which define who you are

One of the primary differences between Welshcakes and myself, apart from the obvious gender disparity, is that she has virtually all the things she was ever given or ever collected and I don't.

I've suggested she should open a sort of gallery and charge admission but that horrified her for some reason. I found the above pic at the embedded link and hasten to add that this is not WCL's style at all - after all, we're living in the heart of baroque down here and her things are ... well ... ornate.

Mine are functional, compact and there are not many left with me - they tend to be strewn across the globe. Don't know about you but I was never sentimental about "things". There is a rabbit's foot letter opener and a little jewellery box with a friend in Russia plus a Toby jug in Australia. That's about all I'd absolutely have to set eyes on again.

Paintings, electronic gear including a home studio, cars, houses and so on - they're all so many memories now, memories I daren't dwell on.

My goodness how things seem to accumulate. I came down here with one case and a cabin bag and to be honest, a friend did fly down with a second small wheelie pack some time ago but now I'm at the packing stage, somehow it won't all go in the packs. How on earth did that happen?

So once again it's a case of posting things to myself or else donating them to the poor. My PC in Russia at least found a good home with a friend's girlfriend.

To tell you the truth, I'm tired of this Flying Dutchman stuff and just want to buy into a base where they're not going to throw me out of the country, where I can set up and start to earn again. Advancing years put a different perspective on what, for a younger man, would be a great adventure.

So "things" don't occupy pride of place in the bookshelves in my mind but the mindset is to be admired in those for whom they're quite important.

[personal things] memories reside in these

Update: check Bunny's offerings here and Nunyaa's here. Cherie's here. Welshcakes' here.

As more come in, this will be updated.

People are more important than things and feelings between people are the most important of all but the danger is that when the people are gone, only the things remain.

This is nostalgia and I'm not a nostalgic person.

And yet the things about me each carry a memory. For example, in the collage at the end of this post, the little bird in a garden is all that's left of perhaps the most important girl in my life. She's still here but not the same person.

One either loved or loathed Roy Orbison but in the track Bono penned for him below: "She's a Mystery to Me", there are many personal things, many images, many memories, glad and sad.

Looking at the woman's visage, it's not surprising to me the memories were mostly sad and yet piquant at the same time.

Will you make a collage of your most important things and post it on your site? Will you include your favourite musical track? I'd like the pragmatic, the gruff, the unnostalgic to post these things as well - to give us an insight into who you are.

Collage of some of my personal things